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Originally Posted by Have Hope
@ MsLady - Yeah, I do get it. But you must not have read through my whole thread to understand the whole picture.
I do see your point about the threats.. Perhaps they've been empty threats up until now. But now I truly mean business. And once again, there were 6 months where things were more or less great. |
Ya, I think they say it takes a person 100+ times (I can't remember the exact number) to say they're going to leave a relationship before they actually do. I get that fully and also about wanting to hold on to the positives.
My point was less about you and more about his interpretation to what you're telling him. I'm wondering if you've lost credibility with him by these empty threats which makes him less likely to want to make changes because he (potentially) doesn't take it seriously.