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Originally Posted by MsLady
Sounds like he's playing with fire. He's agreed to seeing a counselor IF it happens again. By then, if you're committing to your word, he'd need a counselor to support him through the divorce. Too little too late. I wonder if he'd be open to seeing a counselor NOW to help prevent it from happening again. If this is ADHD related, it's a reason, not an excuse, and a counselor or psychiatrist can help him with his impulsivities since it's clearly damaging his marriage.
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Yeah, I mean, you make a good point for certain. I just don't even know anymore. I feel overwhelmed by everything..... the issues I face with him, what I am doing and how I am proceeding, my therapy is overwhelming me.. I am working full time in a very stressful job, trying to find another one... the pandemic is ongoing and problematic. I'm not having an easy time right now. It's all just very challenging. I don't know what I wish to do right now. And when I don't know, that's when I don't think I should do anything until I know for sure. TY.
