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Old Jun 03, 2020, 08:05 PM
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Originally Posted by spikes View Post
I don't know what happened today. It started off the best day ever, but now
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but I have plans like every day and I just don't want to. I don't want to go through with any of the relationships I started (both romantic and platonic). I wish I really had just dropped off the face of the earth, not figuratively for years. Idk if this makes any sense. It doesn't to me.
Hi spikes, you don't know me. I'm one of the new peeps on the block. I wanted to say that I'm sorry that things aren't feeling where they should be. I've been there. Recently. I also know that a lot of the suggestions and advice that I could share might be too heavy to try. So I'll give you this. Do one thing. And then celebrate that. And then do another when you can. That's how I get through the darkest times. Celebrate each success. Give yourself a lot of grace because you are in a place of hurt. Its totally okay to hurt. But don't give up on the relationships that you have in your life, that's the depression trying to get you to isolate. Do the opposite if you can. Explain what you can about what you are going through to them.

And if you need to talk, my PM box is open, friend. I'm still pretty fragile myself, and might not have great advice, but I can listen.

Do one thing.
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Thanks for this!
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