The cousin provided a venue where he had lots of friends and he had all the events lined up such as vacation, BBQ and Christmas party; he was also celebrating anniversary and birthday party; he also had a temple in his home and was doing daily prayers.

We do not do as many activity and my wife does not get along that well with my family; I tell my wife that she has to proactively get involved with me and we can get similar experience; Yet, she seems bit distant regarding this.

She says that I always depend on her to find new friends and activity; It is true that I am involved with her cousins and friends for doing activity but this is my support for her and my way of showing her that I care.

Somehow this is creating wrong impression and conclusion that is not healthy for our relationship; what can I do to make more healthy and enjoyable life for my wife?