Does he tend to say things without thinking? Some people run their mouth so to speak and it doesn’t mean anything.
Otherwise this is just immature and superficial. But honestly it might not be very uncommon. It is maybe done to make a woman feel unsettled and unsure of herself. I’ve met guys who did that, mostly in younger age
Once many years ago I think I was like 19 I’ve met this guy at someone’s wedding, we weren’t even dating although he kept asking me out. He said he didn’t like my name because it’s too common (it’s a common popular name in the area I am from) and he prefers exotic names and he had an example of a name Eleanor or something. Somehow I found it so funny I left so hard I couldn’t stop. He didn’t understand why I declined his romantic advances after that. My best friend and I joked about it for years calling each other Eleanor.
I once had a guy saying he doesn’t like short girls. Well I am short. Lol
One time one guy in high school who claimed to like me said he prefers girls with long necks (mine is average). What the...when I asked why would he say that he said he wanted me to feel jealous that he might like other girls. Lol Like I cared.
I hope your husband is just the type to blurt things out, not deliberately make you feel unsettled
Last edited by divine1966; Jun 04, 2020 at 05:38 PM.
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