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Originally Posted by divine1966
I know you prefer yourself thinner but 140b isn’t chubby. You make it sound like women can’t be hot if they are over certain weight. “When I was hot and not chubby” implies that when you are chubbier (which by the way 140 isn’t chubby) you can’t be possibly hot. Why do you have such views?
I don’t think a guy who says he wants to touch you did it because you are hot (and you are of course) but because he is kind of trash. No decent people act this way no matter how hot a woman looks.
Let’s face it no one is going to look hot forever. We all age. Do you see yourself with your husband in old age when all the hotness is gone? Focus on a deep bond that will sustain you till the end. Is there enough bond there?
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I get my eating disordered mind from my mother. Don't forget, I have an eating disorder and so my thinking may also be disordered when it comes to weight and thinness. My mother was always wanting to be skinny and dieting, our whole lives. She was so focused on dieting and ate poorly and did emotional eating, that I gained an eating disorder and a disordered way of viewing both food and my own body. So to me, I am fat and not sexy because I am heavier. My sister grew to be anorexic as a result of our mother.
And yes and no -- do I see myself with my husband when we're old and gray. I see both ways.
And yes, that dude was disgusting for what he said to me. My point was that it bugged my husband, and ever since then, he's been trying to get me fat.