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Originally Posted by jesyka
Hi, what do you mean that she is only doing this to me since I'm probably the only person who calls her out on her rudeness? I probably am the only one of her friends who has the guts to call her out on her bad manners!
She told me that her other friends aren't direct like I am and that I'm 'rude' for being honest. She doesn't think she's being rude by being passive-agressive. i think that maybe they know that she gets offended easily. What kind of person starts crying when you try to set boundaries nicely?
I think that she was trying to manipulate me and make me feel sorry for her when she came up with that OCD/ ADD excuse. She CAN control her behaviour *** she did stop talking over me for awhile and then started to apologize to me whenever she was repeating herself. She was doing it less often too.
I don't know much about ADD or OCD, but it seems like they can't control their behaviour.
Do you think that she was trying to annoy me more for being 'rude' to her? That would not surprise me at all since she is weird and immature at times. And she has told me that she is passive-agressive at times too.
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Hi Jesyka,
I know someone who has OCD and oh, when she gets onto something she does not let it go. I know you said the person can control her behavior--but I think it is much for difficult for people with OCD--they seem to have some sort of persistence mechanism in them that is set to overdrive. A person I knew told me the same story (about her being angry at someone else) for
years. <--
years. And the incident was
even further back). When my last nerve snapped I finally said, "You've told me that before--several times before. Why Why do you keep bringing that up?" She said, "Because she made me mad."
So after that she didn't tell me that story again. But assuming I ever see her after we are all let out of our homes -- I am guessing she will eventually cycle back around to
that same story. <--that is what I mean by some sort of persistence mechanism.
I'm guessing because your reaction was different from the others--she is chewing away at it.