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Originally Posted by Disney2019
No, I think you hit the nail on the head. We will have intimacy at times, but its sporadic. Sometimes we just kiss, hug etc...not good enough for me. He has even said out loud that I love him. He will say he has love for me. But that’s not good enough. He’s being unfair. He knows how I feel. He helps me and does things for me so to keep me around...it’s heartbreaking that he sees nothing wrong.
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If you want to save the friendship that you both have... you need to setup some strict boundaries. This idea about sleeping in a single bed together every weekend should stop. It's OK to be friendly with each other, but kissing should be a no no. Hugging is innocently OK, and there's nothing wrong with it.
He needs to understand that if he wants the extra benefits he needs to man up, and show that he's needs to make some commitments in the relationship. If he refuses then so be it. Make sure that he understand the bounties that are being put to place. If he refuses to accept it.. you may need to end this friendship because you deserve better.