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Old Jun 05, 2020, 07:07 AM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
If he is truly that way such as deliberately doing things to mess with your self esteem and hurt you rather than accidentally blurting stuff, then it’s a very big issue. What does he really think of women? That women only stay with men because they can’t find no one better? That’s kind of degrading.

He’d accomplish you not leaving by him being a good husband, not by making you feel bad about yourself.
He makes comments sometimes about other women that make my head turn. He will call random women w.h.o.r.e.s, if they're doing something on TV that he finds unappealing or bothersome. On the road while driving, he will call a female driver a w.h.o.r.e if she does something he doesn't like. I correct him every time he says something degrading like that. It certainly makes me raise an eyebrow.

I think his ex wife stayed with him for so long for just that reason.
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