Well, it's actually kind of endearing in my mind, but it IS something he does that when added into the mix of all other things, makes me think he is in fact, very insecure about other men possibly wanting me and insecure about me possibly leaving him. Add to that, the dark haired women comment, his mean jokes at my expense, and him always trying to get me to gain weight and not lose weight, well, it all adds up to paint a certain picture of insecurity and wanting to create an insecurity in me.