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Too, I'd keep looking at the well-oiled aspect; who knows if she'll do what she says and who knows if she'll even remember it, etc.

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Good point especially as she has known for quite some time that she was going to inherit and used it to try and keep us 'in line' on more than a few occasions ie the 'If you cross me too much' i'll give it all to charity ' emotional blackmail type of thing.

Re neediness let's just say my brother is better equipped, drug induced tendency to paranoia aside, to cope with situations than i am but less willing to make the effort to do so.

He's also a lot more 'focussed ' and self centred when it comes to getting his own way.as is my sister,than i am.