Hello there Guys;
Things got real serious with my cousin as I had low sperm count at the time two years ago and my brothers wife got pregnant;

My wife became greatly depressed at the time, and with desperation she used my cousin as a Sperm Donor; He did not disclose this information to his wife as well.

She did not disclose this information until I went ahead with a DNA test after the VAR recording; Now, that I know how deep their emotional connation was rooted.

I do not have problem of him as a Sperm donor, but I wonder how I can manage to keep him out of our life Now.

She says she was afraid about her decision and I would judge her; and after she saw that I was happy with the Baby so did not want to hurt my feelings.

I understand that he did a great favor and they were sharing this big secret for the last two years; Maybe this contributed to her withdrawal from me. Now that everything out in the Open, I really want to take him out of our life.


I do not want to divorce my wife; How can I make him accountable? I have not talk to him for the last four months since I was starting to doubt about his role in our relationship,

What can I do to make this right?