It sounds like things someone would say if they are intoxicated. Is he drinking or taking something when he says this nonsense? Not the way to speak to one’s wife. Just a year after the wedding, not like it’s ok at any time but this supposed to be happy times.

I also wonder if he is so madly in love that he is afraid you’ll leave him where are intimacy issue coming from, I mean not really wanting much sex. Also if he is so afraid you’ll leave why isn’t he making sure you are happy. He contradicts himself. He needs some help