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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
Was he saying that about random women when you were dating? Has all this come out in him since you’re married?
Things you’ve said add up to a not good situation I’d even call abuse.
You are always so intuitive about abuse. Did you not notice all the red flags until they got to be so many?
Girlfriend, I’d redecorate with wicker furniture and he’d be gone, lol. I really feel for you.  |
Lol.... thanks, Tisha.
It's all come out since we've been married. No comments like that until more recently.
I am intuitive about abuse.... I did notice a few red flags early on and had serious doubts months after the engagement. At the time of engagement though, I was happy with him. But even after having doubts several months before the wedding and a nagging feeling in my gut, I got married anyways. I saw the abuse then. Guess I was so gung ho on getting married that I went through with it despite my gut. Stupid stupid stupid. I did not not want yet another broken engagement. I made a mistake. And now I am paying for it.