There is only ONE person in the whole world who can put me into the mood I'm in now. That person is my sister. Two years ago, I cut her out of my life, and never got into this mood. Then she found out from another family member that I have a serious physical health condition, and she got that family member to tell me she wanted me to call her because she's concerned about me. I was RELUCTANT to call her, but I did. For the past two months, we have had a good, fun relationship. But today she started "The Argument" that she always starts. She only has one argument. It works like this: Sister: "I want to tell you something you said/wrote in email or something that hurt me and I wonder if I could tell you." Me: "OK, what?" Sister: You said XYZ and it's really MY problem because I took it wrong, but her's what you said/did. I know you didn't mean to hurt me." Me: "I didn't realize I said that and I'm sorry. So let's drop it, okay?" Sister: "You are making me invisible! I just want to tell you how it made me feel." And the argument gets really heated from there. So you see, my friends, nothing I say works for her. If I want to apologize and forget about it, I'm making her invisible because I refuse to listen to her tell me how bad she feels by what I inadvertently said or did.

So 2 hours ago, I cut her out of my life again. For two years, I lived peaceably and nothing upset me like she did today, because she is the ONLY person in the WHOLE WORLD who can upset me like this.

This horrible mood could go on for 3-4 days. Does anyone have any suggestions about how to change my mood from a bad mood into a good mood?

Thanks in advance for anyone who writes!:

MsMystery