Hello, BirdDancer, thanks for your reply. I do not value my relationship with my sister. None of your suggestions would work with her, because I have tried them numerous times over YEARS AND YEARS AND YEARS with The Argument, the one and only argument she has. Namely, She: "You did XYZ. I know you didn't mean to hurt me, but it made me feel.....3-4 paragraphs of pain." If I say, I'm sorry that what I said/wrote hurt you, and you are right it was never my intention to hurt you. But I am not perfect, so let's just forget about it now. I'm sorry." And see, BirdDancer and all, to let go of it makes her "invisible." I have cut her off, and will not speak to her again. . What I need now from the Forum is to figure out how to get rid of this mood that The Argument caused me to have. I am extremely angry and upset, and I want to let go of the mood but it's eating me alive. I tried several things already to get rid of this mood. I tried watching a TV series on Netflix. Didn't help. I tried playing one of my musical instruments, played well, and after I played The Mood came right back. I ate something and that didn't help, either.
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