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Default Jun 06, 2020 at 08:04 AM
 
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Originally Posted by amandalouise View Post
for the stalkers/ emotional abusers/ perpetrators

recognize your pattern. the first step to changing is recognizing the negative behavior

make an intention not to respond / stay away from your victim/ prey. this will be hard to do but will get easier as you continue to fight your habit of doing to others what was done to you.

talk to your mental health provider. they may know of ways for you to turn away from emotionally, virtually abusing / stalking / attacking others in this new virtual world we now live in..
For all, if you wish, attempt to comprehend why abusers need to abuse. What function does it carry out for them?

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all virtual situations (forums, zoom, ect..) have moderators / administrators that over see the virtual world. contact them when you may feel the need to correct or put someone elses discussions down, or put someone in their place. its their job to keep everyone safe and ensure the rules of the virtual world is safe for everyone including you..
Moderators are humans too, and do not always act in ways that heal. This makes the situation more difficult for you!

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