I’m so sorry you are in this situation. It is a tough one to say the least. I can relate. I believe that I, personally, would have so much trouble trusting either of them after this incident that I’d be inclined to drop them both and start over with a different T and pdoc. I see it as a near 0% chance that you will ever get to the bottom of this and learn the truth about what really happened. I would take it as a sign to move on from both of them. I know that I personally need to be (and deserve to be) surrounded by respect, professionalism, and positive energy. But that’s just me. I’m not sure if moving on from these professionals would be in your best interest or not. Do what feels right to you in your heart and know that you can change your mind at any time in the future. I wish you all the best!