I just want to add to my last post Fuzzy, These controlling people are insecure, and they typically CHOOSE to gravitate towards other insecure people because they KNOW they can manipulate and control them. They are insecure PREDATORS, it's about power and control for them and they only pretend to care. They already KNOW that's what other insecure people want. They know your fears already, they can already see them because they have them too. The way they manage their own fears is by MANIPULATING and CONTROLLING others.

TRUTH is their enemy!! If they face the TRUTH it means they have to face their own realities. They WILL show you their true awful self if you stand up and say a truth they don't want to face. That's when these individuals typically engage in a smear campaign. That's when they turn the table and try to get others to see THEM as the victim. THEY CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH, instead they need to live in their delusional ways of dealing with their insecurities.

You need to be careful about these other support sites you interact in too Fuzzy, these type of individuals typically gravitate to places they can get the attention they want. Most of these kind of individuals gravitate to places they can have some kind of authoritative presence and be around individuals who need help, they are doctors, therapists, teachers, police, babysitters, in boy scout troops, politics, preists, social workers, any place they can get access to people they can prey upon. For example, look at what is finally coming out about Boy Scouts of America. SO MANY VICTIMS of individuals that played a part that people thought they could trust. They know how to prey on niave and innocent already.