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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
It sounds like you both have a good friendship and you won’t lose her unless maybe if you get angry at her and start a fight with her about her not telling you about her boyfriend sooner.
Why didn’t you ever tell her you had feelings for her? Are you very shy?
Moving forward, you can consider her a friend, same as always, but not a girlfriend. Maybe she will break up with her boyfriend sometime and you will tell her you’d like to take her out on a date.
But also start working on meeting new women and combating that shyness.
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Thanks for the advice, TishaBuv. If it wasn't for this lockdown I would have told her that I have feelings for her. That Everytime I talk to her, I can be myself... Something that I do around very few women. That I feel like I don't have to try and impress her. I wanted to do this in person, after this whole lockdown was over; because you can't do stuff like this over text. But yes, other than that I'm very shy when it comes to expressing stuff. I lost a potential girlfriend in college even though she was kinda doubtful that I had feelings for her, and I stayed silent when she was telling her friend that I don't have such an opinion. I pretended like I didn't know what she was saying to him, since it was a different language.