Hi hobbypoet. The world is slowly but fortunately surely catching up to the realities that we live with every day. Until extremely recently I identified as an androgyne. Now I'm comfortable saying my gender is male but a lot of those thoughts and feelings are still there. Have you tried having an honest discussion with your family about what being genderfluid is like? The problem is most people can sort of understand what being a man in a woman's body is like. But what we've lived with forever is so far out of most people's experience we may as well tell them we're a horse in a human body. A lot (most?) transexuals don't understand what we go through either although a good number of them try.