Hello, winter4me. I'm not going to open up discussions with her again. In the past, the worst discussions and arguments were when I tried to accommodate her feelings. She just does not understand that I'm not obligated to listen to her rant. I did call back yesterday and tried to patch things up. I said, "Why is it that you and I make each other feel so bad?" And instantly she started up The Argument again, right where she'd left off. Saying she's tried to make me understand how she felt. I don't care how she feels, not to that extreme degree. She'd already said she knew I had no intention of hurting her, but my comment hurt her and she felt bad. That's enough! I don't need to hear anything else. Drop it, but then she feels "invisible." I told her she was not invisible to me, and she said, "But I feel linvisible." Who the h......cares.