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Originally Posted by divine1966
We can’t diagnose or determine anyone’s personality over the Internet. Some people are more attached to their children and are perhaps more protective as parents. Some parents aren’t.
She had her child late in life.. It’s not necessarily abnormal.
Why is it relevant that she isn’t pretty? Why is it important for you to point it out? Or that she looks older? Having children in your 40s can’t be possibly easy on her body, that could age a woman. Her boyfriend is more cool? What does it even mean?
I don’t know why it’s wrong to post pictures of her family. People post political nonsense and wild party pictures. I’d say posting pics of family is pretty mild compare to that. She isn’t obligated to post anything else on social media.
Why are you concerned?
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I agree, here. This post sounds so judgmental and like you're looking for a label to spit at her with. It's one thing to be concerned with the upbringing of a child.. it's another to comment on someone else's looks. Sheesh! The only problem I see here is your attitude.
People blend social media accounts all the time. It's VERY common and socially acceptable to post family photos on a social media account. This isn't a big deal from a social norm perspective.
Maybe she's anxious around certain people (who make her feel ugly, old, and uncool). Maybe in her own life, she's not clingy at all and very lovely. I suspect there may be trust issues between her and your family and when present, she's protecting her child from being included in whatever concerns she has with you all. That's my gut instinct.