There's an old story I heard when I was a kd in the 70s. One day the medicine man called all the braves to circle around him. He took some white sand and made a large circle on the ground. Then he took some black sand and drew a much smaller circle in the middle of the white circle. He asked the braves, "What do you see?" One by one all the braves said the same thing: they saw a black circle. The medicine man said,"Tell me. How is it you saw the small black circle but you did not see the larger white circle?"

If you look for the black circles in life you won't see that there are very many more white circles.