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Originally Posted by divine1966
We can’t diagnose or determine anyone’s personality over the Internet. Some people are more attached to their children and are perhaps more protective as parents. Some parents aren’t.
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Well, if I say "she doesn't feel empathy for anyone, and she opened all her cats and dogs to see the inside, she also manipulates everyone to get her way and she lies a lot".
No, I can't diagnose and say she was born in a violent context. But I surely can say that by this description she seems to display traits of psychopathy.
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She had her child late in life so that sometimes makes people overly protective as parents. It’s not necessarily abnormal.
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OK.
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Why is it relevant that she isn’t pretty? (...) Or that she looks older? Having children in your 40s can’t be possibly easy on her body, that could age a woman. Her boyfriend is more cool? What does it even mean?
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It can explain why she's so insecure. Yes, her boyfriend is cooler and is around pretty girls. She's not. That can explain her insecurity and perhaps there are already studies about it.
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I don’t know why it’s wrong to post pictures of her family.
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No, it's ok to post some pictures of you and your family, once in a while, sure. But making social media pages JUST for this and blending your name with your kid's? (your child is not your spouse and should not replace that emotional gap! And even blending your name and page with your partner's is not a good sign).
It's not an opinion to say that usually when someone posts too much pictures of their relationship is a sign that something's not going well at home or with themselves.
I want to understand this behavior. It's upsetting. It's painful to watch and I know it's a problem (no, it's not normal or healthy). So I want to understand where this comes from so I can cope with it. Or not.