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Originally Posted by MsLady
I agree, here. This post sounds so judgmental and like you're looking for a label to spit at her with. It's one thing to be concerned with the upbringing of a child.. it's another to comment on someone else's looks. Sheesh! The only problem I see here is your attitude.
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"Sounds" and "like you're looking for a label to spit at her with" it's your interpretation. Not what I'm doing.
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People blend social media accounts all the time. It's VERY common and socially acceptable to post family photos on a social media account. This isn't a big deal from a social norm perspective.
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Posting publicly pictures of the kid and how he treats her PLUS physically being clingy and not letting the kid alone. Not good for the child and certainly not healthy of her.
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Maybe she's anxious around certain people (who make her feel ugly, old, and uncool). Maybe in her own life, she's not clingy at all and very lovely. I suspect there may be trust issues between her and your family and when present, she's protecting her child from being included in whatever concerns she has with you all. That's my gut instinct.
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OK. Yes, I said she's a nice person. Yes, in her head it's her own boyfriend that makes her feel unwanted. That's insecurity: if she doesn't like herself and believes he doesn't like her either, so she clings to the child and the fabricated happy moments to show others and get the validation she desires.