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Originally Posted by Fuzzybear
.... is far too controlling. And, apparently, this is for the sake of the common good. I would like to improve my skills regarding how to engage with this type of individual. or, how to remain under their radar so as not to incur their wrath and..
Projection.
What exactly is Projection?
(not about anyone on pc. I am “unfortunate” in that I seem to attract certain individuals into my life who I would prefer not to. I am sure there are some who would label me with all sorts of things which are not me because of this.  |
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Easy, avoid, avoid, avoid as much as possible! Be vague, never ever tell them anything personal about you!
Talk to other people in groups. Never be alone with them. Make excuses. Go no contact ideally.
I think that projection is when people try to cause you to think that what they're feeling is what you're feeling too. Idk, it's best to google. that.
If they're mad at you, they'll say, why are you so upset when you never said that you're upset. They'll deny their own feelings and act like you're feeling what they're feeling. I might be wrong about that though.
It's best to google that or let someone else explain that who knows more than I do.