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Old Jun 08, 2020, 04:01 AM
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Originally Posted by TishaBuv View Post
Her attitude is confusing. “What’s there to say? What’s the big deal?” I don’t understand why she didn’t recognize that you were a potential romantic interest. You say she talked to you in a way that made you feel like maybe she felt something. Even if she liked you only as a friend, telling you about a boyfriend would be important to reveal. Either she is the most innocently naive person or she may have been leading you on.

Since she is causing you upset, I think I’d suggest too, to break from her. As they say, ‘there are plenty of fish in the sea’, so keep meeting new women until the right one comes along.
I really want to think of it as her being naive and innocent, but here's what confuses me... I just remembered seeing that she had a crush on this guy in our office, which was about five months ago. And when I say "remember seeing her", I mean that she was giving him flying kisses. Also, even though she was speaking to me in that way, she would sometimes throw in the idea of me having a girlfriend that's not her.

Man, this is infuriatingly confusing

Update: She's mad at me for ignoring her texts and me trying to ignore her has now turned into me trying to make her cool down. Dang, that turned around fast.

Last edited by never. happy; Jun 08, 2020 at 07:16 AM.