I asked for more information because I am not a professional, will not try to diagnose (also that’s against PC policy), and thought I could help by discussing behaviors and perception.

We’re just a peer support group. I have been diagnosed with ‘attachment issues’, which you mentioned. I am not a clingy mom and have done a great job. I also don’t post any photos on social media trying to show off my perceivably happy life...in fact, I hate social media.

You may be right that she is not behaving in a healthy way. If so, I hope you are an ally who will be helpful to the situation.