This weekend while at Target he was looking again at a chair we looked at once before and said to me "we should buy this" and "that couch is killing my back". So my quick and immediate response was "I cannot afford that." So he said angrily and in an annoyed tone, "I wasn't asking for you to buy it.".

So, my question is, I know HE cannot afford it, so what did he mean when he said "we should buy this"? He meant, YOU should put it on your credit card and you should buy it for me NOW so that my back doesn't have to hurting on that couch that he says is SO awful.

I am getting worked up again right now over this one issue. That was a part of the financial tension we had, but it was also more than that.