I'm sorry you have so much difficulty with this doc. I'm actually pretty lucky in that regard I guess. My pdoc is always pretty-much ready, willing & able to write me prescriptions for any psych med's I might want (within reason.) But he never pushes anything on me. He'll suggest something. But if I say no... that's the end of it. And my general practice doc is an old man (he must be close to my age.) He comes off as being gruff. And he only deals with what you say you're there for... period... nothing more. But he knows his stuff. So that works for me.