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Old Jun 08, 2020, 06:04 PM
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Originally Posted by Have Hope View Post
I was stupid what can I say? I already feel stupid enough as it is. I wanted to get married. I did not consider any of these things.
You aren’t stupid.

Right now you just have to tell him that he needs to curb his expectations, work on rebuilding his credit, not spend money on things that aren’t important or emergency (like less eating out), start saving and then eventually it should be ok. It’s no big deal if he makes less. As long as he takes responsibility and being reasonable.
Thanks for this!
Have Hope