Ian,
It was me who thought you were being rude in calling hugs fake and stupid. We can stop - hey that is not a problem at all - but what I thought was that there was a nicer way of asking instead of insulting what I do. You don't have to change at all for a
"bunch of strangers" as you put it...geez....excuse us for trying to offer support to you
since you asked.
I ,for one, am not going to respond to any more of your posts. I think that you have way too big of a chip on your shoulder.

Heather
"The Pessimist complains about the wind, the Optimist expects it to change and the REALIST adjusts his sails." ~~~author unknown