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Originally Posted by Have Hope
But I do feel stupid. All of those things I should have thought more about and considered. I saw them, and as things unfolded, I saw them being issues.I was severely distracted by other things and so gung ho on marriage that I made bad choices. I wrote in my journal about these things being issues BEFORE we were married.
Anyways, I do feel really stupid. @ divine1966, and now I feel worse because you tell me you wouldn't have done this at my age.
I'm feeling really down on myself. I need my therapist. |
I am sorry. Oh no I take it back then. I wasn’t thinking straight. I said “I” personally wouldn’t which makes me probably more selfish than many other people. There are people for whom it wouldn’t matter as long as the person is nice. We all have personal preferences.
Forget about what I said. I can ensure you that if you are stupid, so am I. And so are most people. If it’s not one thing then it’s another. I had functional alcoholic boyfriend whom i was sure I could make into a sober person. Yeah ok. I don’t think I am stupid. Just human
Things are only perfect in fairy tales. Plus you can work with what you have.