hey everyone.

I am new to the group but I needed to share my experience with someone I dont know that can remain judgement free.
My husband of 10 years. Father of a 2 year old and my best friend of 15 years has decided that he needs to be honest with himself. We got married very young so he never got the opportunity to explore who he really was. And he has suppressed it all these years due to his upbringing.
I dont hate him. I am disappointed and hurt but I dont hate him.
I am struggling to find myself through all of this. It has always been me and him... never just me or just him. I know this was a decision that he needed to make for himself but I feel hopeless. I feel helpless. I feel like i need to fix things but I know there is nothing to fix because this is who he is.
I am hurting bad and I dont know what to do.
We decided we are going to stay in the same house for now to pay of some mutual debt and then sell the house and split the difference but that is making me very uneasy also.
I just dont know what to do or where to start or how to feel.