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Originally Posted by divine1966
Not diagnosing at all. I did address your parenting concerns in other posts. But since you mentioned that her relationship with her boyfriend is a concern as well (Her showing it off and being insecure he is better looking and her feeling unwanted by him and her always posting their pictures together in abnormal fashion ) I asked these questions in this post.
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Yes, she also uses her relationship with him to validate herself. But the kid is the main tool to validate her self worth that she clearly doesn't see she can have independently of others.
The fact that her face and body do not correspond to the features people perceive has more beauty while her boyfriend is surrounded by women who do display them may contribute to the insecurity.
I thought people on this forum could use that to understand the personality but no, you all just feel shocked that some people can call someone not pretty.
And divine...you read the title of this post "people who cling to their child and their relationships" and your comments are you defending that people who do that are normal. They're not.