I don't see Divine defending that position at all. I see that she is simply reflecting things back to you that you've said and is asking questions for clarification. I think what was said (at one point in the thread) was that posting pictures of your boyfriend/partner on social media by itself is not abnormal. But from your perspective, you're saying she is using social media, her child and her relationship to bolster her self esteem, which is totally different.

Only you know this woman and witness her behaviors in person. Only you see her social media posts. None of us do. We can only go on what has been stated. But it seems that you've gotten what you needed and wanted from this thread. It seems you've come to some conclusions that have been helpful to you.