thank you Kathryn.. the wreck was 30 yrs ago... some things dont go away easy... i appreciate your thoughtfulness... she htought she was having fun... i know we all need fun... but she got a lot more than she bargained for... there are four kids, one husband, a gramma, all our friends, doctors bills, a life of being handicapped... all for a few minutes of wreckles endangerment.. im sure i still dont realize the entire cost....