Dear oldbutwise,

You have lived a very interesting life. And your insights into the things you mention are so appropriate for someone whose screen name is "oldbutwise." Aging doesn't automatically bring wisdom although it seems to nudge people in that direction. I am so sorry that you are having problems with your memory. That must be really distressing. I think there is truth in what you say about how the expectations of others are often behind young people's drive to excel in school. Best to you!

Sincerely yours, Yao Wen