Thanks @TishaBuv!

Yeah, I think I just need super firm boundaries at all times. My credit is great and financially I am not spending all my extra funds on him or on us. I am chipping away at my debt each month. Like next month and the month after, I will have paid off nearly 2K of my personal debt. Thats my goal, and I am sticking to it. IF he begs me for money for something, I will tell him I do not have it because it's gone to pay off my debt.