Hugs, Omers, that sounded like a really awful session. Not to excuse him at all, but I wonder if your T is feeling ill? Or had taken some sort of medication (like an allergy med) that made him sleepy and sort of out of it? Because you said much was out of character, plus the falling asleep thing (and you're seeing him in person now, too, right?) I hope he responds soon and is very apologetic and understanding, perhaps offering up some sort of explanation? I'd be really bothered by the "You pay me" comment as well.