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Originally Posted by Have Hope
Thing is, you cannot be the only one working on the issues in the relationship, Both of you should be working together and individually on the issues. The responsibility of the health and success of a relationship falls on both people's shoulders. It should be equally shared. Have you approached her with the fact that there is a lack of healthy communication between you, that when you approach her to talk about issues, she doesn't want to, and that it's a problem?
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Ya, it's just one sided. When I do share my feelings, the first thing I always say is that I don't feel like I can share without getting attacked. And every single time, she attacks me. Very recently, she actually let me talk, but interrupted me twice, then said I'm not understanding what she is saying but before I could respond, she walked out of the room. She said she didn't want to hear what I had to say. I was just trying to get clarification and come to some kind of solution. I never even got to share my actual opinion.