The kid is not in an unsafe environment. It's just not going to grow up a balanced child. Right now he's a spoiled brat. As you can imagine what will happen to a man who lived all his childhood pleasing his mother's insecurities. Mommy wants to match costumes. Let's go. Forget about matching outfits with is own partner or have ideas for costumes of his own. No, no, no. Mommy had this idea that's going to look so cool on insta.


Thank you. I have my answers now. Anxious attachment, enmeshment and insecurity. I'll research on my own now.