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Old Jun 09, 2020, 05:18 PM
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Originally Posted by Molinit View Post
Not your kid, not in your wheelhouse.. Also clear you don't like the person, so spending even a minute thinking about the person is not doing you any good.
I happen to agree with you. I am having trouble with understanding why someone would need to expend such a large amount of energy figuring out the psychology of another family member. If it were a sibling in some sort of trouble, I could understand, or if the child was being abused, I could understand it better in that case too. I just don't see the point. Why not just focus on one's own life and/or resolving one's own life problems.
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