That balance is a continual dance and it requires an understanding of the whole self. I would want to warn myself that there are hidden pieces of me that need to be seen and heard and that it is going to take all of the strength I have to allow them to surface and greet them with love and compassion without shattering my mind. I would tell myself that my fear is what will break me, but the experience of redesigning my life will be by far the most challenging and rewarding project I can take on.