Thats true, it could be a good thing. Thats definitely the more healthy way to look at it. Im going to try to think of it like that. Id rather be poor at coping with large amounts of bad long term and be great at coping with the present though. At least there is a 'good at' in there somewhere. I have an appointment with a new therapist on thursday and if there is a section where it wants you to list some good traits ill write that down with all the paper work they always want you to fill out