Oh it's FAR too late for that. Divorce has been brought up in every single fight. He's the one who brings it up almost every time we've fought. I have too, but it's mainly been him. And sometimes, he has said "you don't want to be married!"

The last time we fought in early May, and afterwards when we talked about going to therapy IF he yells at me again, he asked me if I didn't think we were good together, and I said "no, we're not." So he asked why. And I told him then it's because he couldn't admit to having a problem with his temper. That's when he agreed to therapy.

I get 50% that he may want a divorce himself, and 50% that he doesn't.