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Originally Posted by nottrustin
How about doing sessions say every 10 days..so in between weekly and every other week?
Or having some shorter sessions.
If his schedule is full to the point of worrying about fitting you on now, I would be concerned that of you took time off it would take a bit to get you back on the schedule especially if it is really important. Also, fitting you in for a 3-4 hour session also seems hard for him to schedule.
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I doubt he will offer shorter sessions but I will ask. H gets paid every two weeks and gives me the money for T, groceries, bills and car insurance... problem is H gives me what ever he feels he can spare after caring for his needs/wants Offering no more than what is needed but often less. If I switched frequency of sessions with T I have to still “go” the same time and day each week... yes, calling a domestic violence shelter has been suggested but T is under the delusion that they will somehow provide the resources for me to see him when they have their own on staff counselors and there are a variety of clinics... that suck... but I digress... I may make that call with T next session.
Yes, T will need a month or longer notice to fit me back in for even an hours session yet alone a longer session. Saving for even a single session with T will take more than the time to get into his schedule. H consistently provides enough for one session a month knowing I go every week, sometimes more but I can count on one session. I have maxed my credit cards to cover the difference until now.