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Originally Posted by Francais
Hello Guys,
She’s 19; She’s very attractive, smart and loving. Everything seems perfect.. I love this girl so much, and I want to make it work.
However everything I've read so far about fatherless daughters seems to indicate that a marriage will be doomed to fail. She will likely either cheat, leave me or make the relationships so hard and draining.
Nevertheless; I’m wondering whether these outcomes are not inflated because of fatherless daughters lack of standards and poor choice of men that may lead her to be with a bad person and be in a toxic relationship.
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First off, I couldn't help notice your order of characteristics .. she's young, attractive, then smart. To be blunt, she's as smart as a "19 year old" who has a lot of learning and growing to do.
IMO, having "lack of standards" is having a young girl marry a man twice her age instead of focusing her attention on post secondary education. She just graduated high school! She's a kid ON TOP of your concerns. She's vulnerable. Even if she's enrolled in college/university, you'll be nothing more than a distraction and pressure for HER.
The fact that she doesn't have any positive male role models will increase her risk of marrying you for the wrong reasons.