She probably is looking for a father figure IN YOU because she's had none. Why be with someone who is still just a CHILD, developing and doesn't even know or understand the world fully, herself fully and/or what she wants fully? It takes years for young adults to become who they really are in life. She probably will change a lot between now and then. I personally find it sickening that you're even considering being with someone who is only just a child and who is still officially a TEENAGER.